You thought by the golden age of 30 all your shit would magically be put together. Now you're 30 and broke, career hoping, raising a kid or trying to plan for one, single or settled… Grass isn’t always greener and you’re damn sure not wiser with age! Whelp I’m here to tell you just because you’re 30 and bare don’t let the judgment sink in! Revise that vision board and grab the highlighters for your planner the journey has just begun!
People always assume that just because your single, it’s because one of these reasons apply:
1)You don’t love yourself enough or you need more time to “find you”Like, what does that really fucking mean? So, I’m single implies that I don’t love me? Trust me I had a lot of time to find and love myself. If I find me anymore me and my inner me going start getting sick of one another.I argue and feed myself enough, I want someone else to take the job.
2) I’m dating all the wrong people, maybe I need to change who I’m dating.This one grinds my fucking gears. When I date it’s not the same type of person. Listen, I don’t even have a type at this age. I just want you to be stabled and fuckable. So, that advice is horrible and how you know who the hell I’m dating?
People have all the advice in the world as to why you’re single. There’s actually no answer, God just didn’t put that person in the position to meet you yet. Shit, I’m fucking amazing and my ass is still single. I may need medication at times but we all have flaws. Everyone has flaws you just have to find a person who’s willing to work with them or accept them! I still haven’t gotten to my point. The title is “ I’m just not that into you”.
Okay, so I’m always hearing that I don’t like the “Good Guys” . You know, the man that has his shit together according to what’s on paper. The guy that would do anything for you, give you the world and shit. The guy who always compliments you, cares for his children(or has none), bank account sitting right and has a good relationship with his mother. So, why don’t you just be with him? Only thing is, I’m just not that into him. I can’t force myself to like the “good guy”. Shit, ain’t my fault he just don’t make my pussy wet (yes I said that shit) or that I get bored when we talk. I tried many time to like the good guy. I even took one or two serious but you can’t force yourself because everyone is tired (including you) of you being single. I’m not even saying that I’m looking for love. I’m one to believe if you vibe with someone you can fall in love with them. I don’t even think you need love to be married.
What I do believe is that I MUST be sexually attracted to you. Good sex goes a long way. You can love and like someone all you want but if the sex ain’t there them feelings will fade away. You think I’m lying? People do the craziest things for sex… Good dick will have a woman go crazy. As good pussy does to a man.
I just haven’t found my reformed bad guy who is tired of the thug life and wants to settle down with my ass. I tell you one thing though, I will not just settle for the good guy because I’m lonely or it just looks good. I just need to hit up Ms. Badu and ask her how she turn these thugs into good guys !