What is the first thing a female does when she meets a guy and is interested in him or likes him, yes you guessed it, she checks all his social media accounts. First being facebook
(That’s where you get most of the info), then IG to see his pictures(see how he living, dressing etc).Yes, you’re looking , searching, invest-ti-fucking-gating, but most of all, you’re checking to see if he has a SIGNIFICANT OTHER/GIRLFRIEND/WIFE!
Now, if I’m looking through his TL on Facebook and see that he has no pictures of him with a women then okay. I am not talking about him and his aunty,cousin, or pretty ass Ms. Popular little sister . I’m talking about the girl he’s holding tight and making silly faces with, the one he looks like he is out on a date with. I’m talking about his girl, baby moms he still fucking or ex that he still texting. If he post her, it’s like he is showing the strength of their relationship.
To me only a weak relationship cannot withstand people online who have this “power” to end your relationship with their two cent, opinions, judgments, inboxes, etc. So, ladies if you have convinced yourself that your relationship should be “private”, that a post doesn’t have to validate the relationship, or doesn’t mean he cheating.Stop!!!
Stop feeding me the shit he feed you. Tell that to the chick searching his page, his family that has never seen you, or the ex that’s still hitting up his phone. No, These pictures do not validate your relationship, but I’m sure if you tag him in a picture and he is in any way upset, baby, check ya title and make sure it’s secure.
How does everyone get these
“relationship goals” memes and pictures? Maybe because a couple took a picture, he either posted it or she tagged him. Either way, it was posted.
I’ma keep it 100 with you, I consider myself a hell of a catch. I worked many years to build the woman that I am today. Educated, beautiful, sexy, funny, from a good family and so forth…So, if we are together like a couple, I’m posting pictures and not having anxiety while doing it. You should be proud to show me off!
I totally understand that some men don’t really use social media like that. I’m talking about the ones that post frequently like 89% of the other millennials on this planet earth. He posting his food, clothes, party pictures and many flicks with his friends/family, but not with you? * insert thinking emoji face LOL
I know a guy personally, who would post pictures of his children , homegirls who just had a birthday, vacation pics, but never his girlfriend/mother of his children. I don’t believe people even think the children have a mother lol. They have been living together for years but he never post or speak of her. At the same event and posting separate pictures. (Now, I have to play blues clues) Shit, to my recollection, they were never a couple. This, maybe okay with some women, but not this one. If you can’t post US or me…..WE DON’T GO TOGETHER.
Someone stated that we should keep our relationships private and marriage public. OH, so I have to marry into a fucking picture?
Post me cause one day we could be relationship goals. ( I’m just fucking joking calm down people)
But seriously Is not being posted on his social media a relationship deal breaker?
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