I’m not a size 6 anymore, and I’m okay with that.
Twenty-five was one of my best years in my 20s. I was a size 6 in jeans.My weight would go up and down but the biggest size I would go up too would be a size 8. I had no stomach, well it wasn’t flat ( still had some baby fat) , but you get what I’m saying, I could wear high waisted jeans without a little muffin showing. I could party all week long, eat fatty hangover foods and Drink until Mr. Ugly became Mr. Fine, and still be a size 8. If I wanted to lose weight , I would go on a quick diet and workout. I would be right back to my size 6 , phat ass and small waist. Owww.
Now, Lets fast forward to My sexy 31 year old size 12 ass. I thought that If I ever made it to double digits, I would just die. Well, Look who’s still alive and made it to weigh 185 lbs. And Guess what …. I DON’T GIVE A FUCK. We are not always going to be a fucking size 2 or even a 10. This is what I call my adult weight and I love the fucking skin I am in. So, People who want to say “Hey, girl you gaining weight“ or “ You need to lose a few pounds”, I am the grown woman size and I don’t have to be slim thin to be sexy. Ladies , there is nothing wrong with a little weight. Shit, this goes for my fellas as well, ain’t nothing wrong with that sexy ass man belly. I think it’s hot and comes with wisdom. I mean, don’t get me wrong, them 6 packs can, always get it. ( Hey, Kofi, Zaddy)
First, of all let’s me get this off my chest.You fucking thick slim bitches, I hate you. Like, how God just gonna make you have full breast, thick thighs, hips and shit , without being out of shape. I always, envied them. Like, That’s the full package. We women may get a nice size butt with small chest or a small butt with big chest, but we rarely get the full packages. So again , damn you bitches.
I say , whatever size makes you happy is the size you should be. I’m sick and tired of having my biggest fight in my life, be with my weight. You are not going to be the same size as you were in high school, so stop comparing yourself to that prom picture from 2004. Stop believing that every “Pretty” girl on Instagram is slim thick or thin, They have apps for that lol. I have a girlfriend that I see all the time in person and be thinking, Damn she is so out of shape. But honey, let me tell you on social media you would have never guessed. Some ladies mastered the high angle picture. Shit be having women who are a size 18 looking like a size 10. DON’T BE FOOLED, better yet don’t compare yourself to these pictures.
Now that I’m older, every other month I’m on some kind of diet. I had friends who did the juice diet, apple diet, detox tea diet, no meat, etc. We try any and everything to be smaller. Sis, Don’t starve yourself! I’m not saying , go ahead fuck eating right and working out. I’m saying be happy with who you are, while you’re working on yourself. Try to make it a lifestyle and fit it into your life. Diets don’t work, 30 day challenges don’t work,detox teas, nor does herbalife.( OK, not saying they don’t work but once you stop, you gain it right back). So, If you change your eating habits, workout more or even take walks. Shit, changing from the elevator to the stairs.These become routine and second nature, and simple lifestyle changes.
We are at the age where we should be eating right and becoming more active on a daily basis.
So, Stop worrying that you’re not fitting into your 11th grade skinny jeans . Be happy with your “ Grown Woman Weight” , eat right and take a walk during your lunch break. Small changes mean a lot but hating your image is just lame. IF NO ONE TOLD YOU , “BABY YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL”.