Invisible Exchange

-This isn’t my first actual blog , But I just had to get this shit of my chest!

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“ A WET PUSSY AND A DRY PURSE DON’T MATCH”-Paul Mooney

I told myself that my first blog would not be about men, boys or whatever you want to call them. Different moods order for different names. After the conversation that I had today, I just had to write a blog about this shit. So, I’m dating this guy off and on for a few years now.( yes, I got straight to the point) I’m not one to ask for help , maybe due to the fact that I’m so damn independent, that I hate rejection. But who the fuck wants to feel vulnerable ever. Anywho, I asked him to get my nails done and he hits me with the let me check my account, and then no reply. Well, of course he became super busy at work. So, I guess my nails won’t being getting done under his expense, but that’s besides the point. I’m not saying that sex equals funds, by any means that not what I’m trying to say. But if we are fucking on the regular especially if we are the type that went to our doctors , got checked and made it clear that we are not being protected, aka you better not be fucking anyone else.Okay maybe that a whole another topic. Like, I was saying if we are fucking exclusively, dating, or by any means claiming one another if I ask you for anything , I should get a “ I got you” or “ I can help you with as much as I can”. Yes, sex is an invisible exchange. I’m not talking fuck me then put a couple dollars on the dresser, I’m saying if I need a oil change,you pay for it or put to it. That’s not asking for much, shit I’m over here almost giving you my life and that’s my pussy. I take this pussy very seriously, unless you are just a fuck and that’s a whole another topic.
Ladies this goes for you as well, if you don’t have money, ya account on negative or you just ain’t doing right with your life, then you shouldn’t be fucking if it not beneficial for you. How can a dry purse make a wet Pussy?

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25 thoughts on “Invisible Exchange

  1. In the words of Dj Khaled “You played yourself”.

    On a serious note, i would have follow up questions to ask. Does he view yall as a fuck here and there type of friendship? Are yall that close enough for u to ask this request? Has he made contributions to ur other demands before? Sidebar: the whole doctor shit is light and is a simple request for raw sex. Thats called being responsible and being a human.

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    1. I stated we have been on and off for years which implies that we have been having sex for some time now. I have to be very comfortable with you for me to ask for anything. The questions is why after all this time do I need to even ask. Whatever happened to ” Hey babe you good? Do you need anything?”

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      1. Question why do woman say they have to be comfortable to ask a man for something, but not comfortable to have sex with the man? If your comfortable enough to lay down with this man asking for something should be easy peasy.

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      2. I guess rejection. Its easier if your asking your “Man”. Shit when I’m in a relationship I can easily ask for shit and most of the time I don’t even have to ask. You feel uncomfortable the first few times period. You have to think shit Some men don’t have it and some was just raised wrong. And truthfully sometimes the sick so good you don’t care. Ever heard of a suga moma lol

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      3. Lol!!!! Sex so good I think I might buy him a short set😂

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      4. I see ur perspective. Its bad out here.

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    2. Love it just the honesty cuz we all feel like we shud be together by 30 but what I’m learning is 30 to me is for repairing the dum ish we did in out 20’s

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  2. Love it just the honesty cuz we all feel like we shud be together by 30 but what I’m learning is 30 to me is for repairing the dum ish we did in out 20’s

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    1. I heard that we are at our greatest sex Peak in our forties so there is a light at the tunnel!!!

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  3. You have always been ill with the words ever since our public speaking class can’t wait for more 😍

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  4. Yes! well said I think you should write more!

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  5. It’s always best to have the line of communication open and understand that your expectations are just that- expectations. Maybe he feels that type of support or supplement is reserved for a relationship. Maybe he has a different set of expectations for the type of exchange you’re having. Sounds like what you have is a solid agreement for casual sex. I wouldn’t expect anymore than that Side note- always be protected. I wouldn’t trust no man with my health or body that can’t run me $30 for a refill when I ask for it.

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    1. The crazy thing is he knows if he asks me for anything he can get it. Casual sex still has a price tag to it. But after all this time I never asked him really for much so now I see he ain’t worth no oil change he damn sure ain’t worth this pussy! I trust that he’s not sleeping with anyone else. No one really likes condom sex we going to keep it 100.

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  6. dry p
    couple dollare exchanged here n there both ways is reasonable. one should not leave the other hanging especially if said request will make both happier.. i like nails for back skratch purposes n shawty like lookin good . win win.

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    1. Right! Trust if he needed me I would be there for him. Why wouldn’t you want a woman to have nice nails lol

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  7. I absolutely love this!! It is cut throat and real and it reflects a lot of real life women sitatutions. In other words many can relate and that’s awesome. I look forward to more blogs😊

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    1. Thank you. Make sure you share the link

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  8. Love it, love it! Waiting for more!
    Congratulations!!

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    1. Thanks! Don’t forget to share the link

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  9. 30Bare

    I think what people will get out of this blog(especially if they interacted with you) is not only you and your purest form but also a sense of depth. Not to say that they haven’t experienced that yet but more for the readers to experience you the person inside and out. How down to earth and relatable you are. Looking forward to your next entry

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  10. I agree. I feel if we are “exclusive,” which can mean dating, screwing, etc., I should be able to ask you for a couple of dollars and you should give it to me. A close male friend of mine always says, “Pussy (i hate that word) is power. ” I think men nowadays are cheap and don’t want to spend anything or give up any money.

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    1. Right so does this mean we should be celibate? How’s else are we going to please ourselves. I’m over the vibrator I needs skin to skin lol. How low do our standards need to go UGH

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  11. Love it one thing I can say about you is that you’ve always had a creative mind this is dope and this is me 30 & Bare 😘 I’m not alone!

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  12. Most men are Not single as they are in a relationship and Brokeness is her name. Sometimes I wonder do these men/boys have mothers and sisters. What happened to a man wanting and needing to provide or better yet problem-solving ?

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  13. Been there done that October 25, 2017 — 2:19 pm

    Oh the power of the ‘P’. Wars have been fought over it, lives have been lost and rent has been paid. But don’t confuse the cost with the price. If a man feels he has to pay for it in time, money or otherwise he’ll treat it like anything else he can buy. If he understands that the cost of your affection or pussy is nails or hair or a check-in text then he feels empowered because he now knows the cost and can choose if it’s worth the price. If the sex is free then it loses value. And sex without value is just plain fuckin.

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